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As far as the pleasure of the visiting explorers and tourists goes, that too can be easily taken care of here like Norway.
You might ask yourself when seeing this title: is there really memphis tn local fuck to say about seduction in Norway? In Italy one could write about the casanovas and the sexy brunettes agreeing with langourious eyes and loud conversations, in France it would be the born-seductors and the classy and snoby Parisian women teasing men with their red lipstick and long cigarettes.
But in Norway?? Yes the Norwegian people also have some codes and mysteries surrounding seduction, and they will adult apk free be revealed to you now!
I found out that the Norwegian townsville sex date of seduction is based on three basic principles. The first one is eye contact. In any setting a metro, a party, a bar a man or a woman will look at you directly in the eyes for several seconds.
You might think, like me, that this guy is looking at you in a strange way. Is he stalking me? NO he is trying to seduce you with his hypnotising long eye-contact. If you are a Scandinavian woman you will look back, with a wink? And that is the start of something, I guess. Men will rarely do more than that in their part of the Norwegian seduction process. It is only after some years in Norway girls look for in men I realised that men do flirt in their own peculiar way in order not to do anything that might invade your private space.
But sometimes they are even too shy to do that. If so go directly to principle three: alcohol.
The second basic principle is logically linked to the effect of the first principle. Patriarchal, probably. More romantic, definitely. Scandinavian women work for it, whereas we sit there and bat our eyelashes. They get active and invite men to dance and flirt openly whereas Southern women are taught to do these things subtly and discretely.
You know, with a little style and dignity, not drunk with your fake tan getting off your face like I often saw in the UK. Although I see the benefits of women being like that, it is so foreign that I can only sweep and cry for all the Latin girls who never dare to do such things. Mind you, a few French men I met were offered sudden one night stands by Danish or Norwegian women in bars or parties refused.
They got quite angry of course this is second-hand information, I never experienced it myself. Some men actually like the chasing part, in our part of the world it is that which is free american dating seduction. In more machist housewives want nsa glen ridge newjersey 7028 like France or Italy, such open flirting from a woman will be seen as an invitation for all the men in the neighboorhood.
Some men not all of course already flirt heavily when uninvitied, so imagine if you actively seek attention. What happens to women who grew up in such setting when they end up in Norway? Being used to be seduced for weeks and months by men, with flowers and travels and dreams come true? Well, too bad for you, wink back and get over lonely wants sex sedalia. So second conclusion: Norwegian women are fearless.
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Which is good, I guess, when you think in terms of gender balance, feministic battles etc. The third basic principle, which is the most important of all, is the link between all the principles, the foundation of Norwegian seduction. Yes I am talking about alcohol. Most would say that housewives seeking sex tonight pine knot French also drink alcohol, and that is true obviously. A drunk Dane once told me that being half drunk is a waste of money.
Some philosophical standpoint to think about. At that point, just before you pass out, vomit or you get blood poisoning, you are brave enough free puppy in md make a move on that girl sitting next to you in the bar. It is 3am and everyone needs to leave because the bar is closing. This is the M moment for Norwegian couples in the making.
What comes next is the infamous party-trilogy: after-party, date and honestly play and hungover and sometimes a bonus like vomit and morning-after pill. Most of the time it ends there, after awkward morning-after-moments: who is this person?
Free phone chat dallas this a real moose-head hanging on the wall staring at me? Then follows days, sometimes weeks of exchanging sms with lonely date smileys than anyone can stand. And then sometimes people hit it off and get together, and after many complicated commitments decide to call each other girlfriend and boyfriend.
They might have kids, but rarely do they get married.
To all of those who spread the information that there women want nsa connerville no codes of seduction in Norway, you are wrong. There are more than codes, there are scenarios that repeat themselves over and over again every friday and saturday evening in the streets of Norwegian cities.
What is it like to date a man from norway?
Or what if you are tired of meeting people for one night because now you are 35 and girlfriend for free of over that. Well then Norwegians start dating on the internet. That does not involve alcohol or so I am toldbut a lot of smileys still and long conversations through screens, which make it easier for shy Norwegian men and women to communicate with potential love-of-their-life without even having to pass out.
More in a next blogpost: Surviving sukker.
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